According to
the diplomat, Congolese in general, not only girls or women are not to be
blamed for being lazy and perverse in their ways of life. He continued: “They are at the image of the Mbouchis
governing the country, who have evaluated their retrograde traditions and culture
into a way of life and which has sadly been adopted by the government and Congolese
people”. While the
Congolese diplomat that I met in Washington DC seems to have an implacable
hatred for Marien Ngouabi and most northerners, which made me to take some of
the points and observations he made with some circumspections, there are
nonetheless some aspects or some points that, he raised during our conversation
that, seem in my opinion that, he was not exaggerating. This had to do with the
aspects of non respect for women which seems preponderant among people from the
greater north and in chief, the Mbouchis. Although Congo is a majority
Christian country, the paradox is that, the Mbouchis in power have made
polygamy official. Perhaps they have done so for reasons earlier mentioned. But
intelligent as they sometimes are, especially when it comes to do despicable
things, the governing Mbouchi push for polygamy in Congo was wrapped and
marketed as promotion and respect for African traditions. They sold it that way
because of the strong opposition from the largely Christian greater south and evangelical
churches.
It may also explain why, they
never made mentioned in their project that, it was the transposition of a
retrograde culture practiced mostly in Oyo and Edou.Whatever
reasons may have motivated the current system to encourage polygamy, it must
once again be pointed out that, in the greater south, because of the influence
of the Protestant brand of Christianity and extreme westernization, polygamy
has been almost wiped-out or is marginal. By contrast, polygamy is still wide
spread in the greater north, because of under education, the dominant influence
of animism and Catholicism. Some Mbouchi cadre who are manning the mantle of power
in Brazzaville could employ all subterfuges to justify the misogyny on women in
Africa and in Congo in particular, but the truth in my humble opinion is that,
most Congolese men, especially northerners of the minority ruling Mbouchi tribe
of President Sassou Nguesso seems to have very little consideration for women.
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