I began this
chapter with a focus on Congolese women by decrying them, not because I have a
particular biased toward them, simply because I love them. My take on Congolese
women, especially those within the age bracket earlier mentioned and which
would be mentioned below with greater details has driven me to a dire
conclusion. For in any society and family that have disproportionate number of
young women, who are not hardworking and equally not ambitious, then, there is
no hope or no bright future. It is sadly what I foresee in Congo, if the
current system prolongs its stay in power.
The latter said, Congolese young women could be ranked among the most
beautiful women on the continent. But behind those beauties, which won’t be
complete without it inherent caprices, hides these strange observations that I
have made during my stay in the country: lazy, mercantile and adulterous. However,
I must point out that, my observations on Congolese women, especially the young
of the age bracket earlier mentioned, is a wide net that I have cast and as
such, it must not to be considered as reflective or representative of entire
Congolese women. This section is not meant to nurture unnecessary prejudice on
a group, who like any other, is not uniform in it behaviors and composition.
And like anywhere in the world, the Congolese young woman is multiple in her
conduct and character.
To make
things simple, like their men, there are good as well as bad women in Congo. Very beautiful and as well as ugly women, however,
I have found out that, Congolese women born in the 50s, 60s are harder workers
than the younger generation. Furthermore, Congolese women born in the 50s, 60s are
also more independent minded than those born in the late 70s or early 80s and
not to talk about those born in the early 90s who are arguably, the laziest.
This is another Congolese paradox that, I have been unable to come up with a
founded reason to justify or defend. My only answer has been to attribute it to
the corrupt old political leadership, who are drunk with excessive oil wealth, which
they use to destroy younger generation: male and female. I have attempted to
give or paint what Congolese elite, in chief males molded in the mould of the
ruling PCT party considers as success. This time around in spite the above, I
am also going attempt to paint what a certain crop of Congolese women do
consider as success. However, you have to bear in mind that, these ones are
those who have already been destroyed by the ruling PCT party’s way of life.
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